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The Do’s and Don’t for Beginner to Dominatrix

Are you a submissive?

Are you into Dominatrix?

Do you like pain during sex? and you love hand cuffs, collar, whips?

Or are you a good submissive? We are not cheeky enough to believe we can offer the ungarbled word on exemplary submissive behavior, but we can learn a thing or two though the years that might be helpful to you.

The dominas who advertise on the internet have their own opinions of what constitute the perfect passive pet, just as we do. Some of the ladies like sissy maids and poofy petticoats. Other mistress favors proud and macho masochist who test the mistress sadistic skills.

The variety is endless, yet there is surprising number of slave-dos and salve don’ts which most accomplished dominas agree, are important to correct compliance.

So, which are which are you? if you are a novice at kneeling before a booted beauty, you’d better pay strict attention. If you the other hand, you think you’re already pretty good at submitting to a dominatrix, read along and compares your notes, you might learn thing a two here.

First Contact with a mistress

The mistresses we spoke with were nearly all in agreement over the accepted behavior for a submissive when he or she first writes, calls on the mobile or email. If you’re a good submissive you don’t present, yourself as someone you are not.

Dominas appreciate honest, open discourse from their prospective slaves. A Good submissive don’t brag, lie or deceive. Question should be asked for information and for understanding one another not for clandestine arousal.

In fact, it makes sense to let the Domitarix question you, rather then the reverse. Genuine queries that are pertinent to your possible meeting, such as do you have a safe sturdy, full body suspension equipment? Mistress? Are acceptable.

Questions like “what are you going to do to me, mistress? While your breath heavily and suggestively into the phone are not going to win you and this months’ good slave award!

Do – communicate from you heart and your head

Don’t communicate from your loins!

Pester at your own risk

The meeting arrangement with your mistress

Once a good submissive has made initial contact with a dominatrix, what’s next? Have you planned for a meeting? Is it tomorrow? Is it next week?

Do you love so far away you might only get to see her on occasional business trip or yearly vacation? No matter when the appointment a good submissive does not anticipate the occasion with too many nuisance phones calls. You mustn’t jam her email with overly exuberant letters either.

Dominas cherish those slaves who are respectful of their mistress time. This foe s for your time together as well. Attempts to linger in your mistress studio after your session has end could make her less pleased with you.

Likewise, with unplanned casual meetings at fetish parties you must cling to her or hover too closely the whole night if you wish to remain in her good graces.

Do express your genuine desire to know her, submit to her and even worship her.

Don’t Become a pest.

Always have something on offer, such as her favourite sex toys like a expensive LELO Vibrator Soraya Wave or a nice wetlook stocking with pantie set. This will get you into the good books

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