Premature Ejaculation: How to control it now and forever

One of the most common complaints among men is that they orgasm too quickly during sex. When you feel out of control of your orgasmic response, you may feel disappointed. Luckily, since this is so common, many ways exist to overcome premature or early ejaculation. At Funtasia, we offer various ways to help you right now and also in the long run.

What is Premature Ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation, or early ejaculation, is when you ejaculate earlier than you'd like to. You feel out of control when it happens. When you ejaculate too quickly during partnered sex, you may feel embarrassed and as if you cannot satisfy your partner. This can be an isolating feeling.

But there are many ways that you can have improved orgasmic control available at our stores. These offer you temporary help in delaying your orgasm so you can improve your sex life right now. We also have a few sexologist-approved tips to help you improve your ejaculatory control for life.

Simple Premature Ejaculation Solutions for Right now

Early ejaculation takes time, patience, and effort to gain control over. Here are a few ways that you can improve your ejaculatory management right now:

Cock rings

Yes, we discuss them all the time. But that's because they're the most effective (and cheapest) ways to improve your sex life immediately!

Cock rings are called many names: constriction bands, penis rings, c-rings, whatever you call them, they're all similar.

The most common type is a stretchy silicone band. It goes either around the base of your penis or behind your testicles.

Wearing a cock ring does many things, including increased ejaculatory control. They can also:

• Decrease your penis sensitivity allowing you to have sex for longer
• Make your penis look and feel bigger
• They help youmaintain an erection
• Make your orgasms more intense
• Pleasure your partner if you get a vibrating one!

There are countless ways that cock rings are beneficial. But they're especially great for premature ejaculation. Put one on before intercourse with a partner, and you'll notice the decreased sensitivity. Therefore, you'll be able to have sex for longer!

Delay spray

Delay sprays often contain the active ingredientLidocaine. Spraying or applying a little bit of this directly to your penis causes numbness. That numbness decreases your penis' sensitivity which can help you last longer in bed.

But be cautious. Delay spray can easily be transferred to your partner if you're not careful. When applying delay spray, focus on the head of your penis. Also, make sure you put on a condom. Otherwise, some of that numbness can transfer to your partner, leading them to have a decrease in sensation!

Condoms

Condoms, in general, can help delay orgasm. Since you're covering the penis, you'll have decreased sensitivity. But make sure you're choosing the right condom if you're trying to delay your orgasm. Many condoms feature "tight" or "extra tight" on the box, which means they're almost like a cock ring for your entire penis. When you decrease the sensitivity of your penis, you'll have better ejaculatory control at the moment. 

These are all easy, affordable options to help you get better ejaculatory control right now. But you can do a few things to see long-term benefits and improvements in your orgasmic response.

Sexologist Approved Long-term Fixes for Early Ejaculation

As a sexologist, this is something I work with a lot. Many men feel they could be better lovers if theylast longer in bed. But remember that the clitoris is the orgasmic powerhouse of female pleasure. Even if you ejaculate early, you can continue to give your partner pleasure through clitoral stimulation. 

If you're keen on staying inside for longer, here are a few things that can help you in the long run.

Make sure you're masturbating in a healthy way

There are plenty of ways that masturbation can either improve or harm your sex life. Masturbation is the underpinning of all things sexual. Therefore it's a way to train yourself to have better ejaculatory control.

When you masturbate, always remember to do a few things:

• Masturbate slowly- If you're in a situation where you may be caught or need to be sneaky and fast, you're training your body to always orgasm that way. For example, you still live with your parents, and they're likely to walk into the room at any time. Therefore, you jerk off quickly. This teaches your brain and body some harmful habits.
• Use a relaxed grip- The "death grip" is teaching your penis some very unrealistic expectations about the sensations it'll experience. When you masturbate, relax your grip and try to be realistic. When you do this, you'll understand what it feels like to get close to orgasm so you can delay it bit by bit. 
• Practice edging - Edging is when you bring yourself close to orgasm, the stop stimulation. Once you've regained control of your orgasm, you begin again. Edging is beneficial when done with patience and care. Identifying the "point of no return" is a powerful way to learn ejaculatory control in the long run. 

These simple tricks you can implement in your solo-sex routine will ultimately change your sex life. Remember, these are long-term habits. So you won't see changes overnight. But you will have better sex for the rest of your life if you take them seriously.

Practice with a pocket pussy

One of the reasons why men ejaculate early is that you're so excited about the sensations of a vagina or anus.

These sensations are incredibly pleasurable, and penetration alone may bring you close to orgasm. So when you masturbate on your own, you can get more comfortable with them, so they're a little less exciting.

Choose aFleshlight orpocket pussy that works well for the sex you'd like to have with another person. Use that to implement healthier masturbation routines like those mentioned above. Using a pocket pussy or Fleshlight will only make these sensations more realistic, so the training will be more beneficial. 

Seek sex coaching

Early ejaculation is tied to problematic practices that may be challenging to change. Getting help from asex coach with premature ejaculation can lead to you having the sex life you've always dreamed of. If you want professional support to make lifelong changes, contact me,Elaine Turner, today. I'm one of Australia's Only certified sex coaches, and I'm here to help you gain control of your orgasmic response today. It starts with a quick15-minute call to get you on my coaching waitlist.

Your masturbation habits are the basis for your entire sexual identity. Start treating masturbation with love, patience, and curiosity. You'll see a dramatic improvement in your ejaculatory control in no time.

The Bottom Line

Premature ejaculation can make you feel insecure, creating a cycle of unhealthy fears and thoughts that lead to even worsen the situation. Start changing your sex life today for the better by implementing a few of these healthier habits. You'll see improvements before you know it!

If you're looking for toys, delay sprays, and similar items, visit one of ourthree locations throughout New South Wales!Funtasia always has an answer to help you improve your sex life. 

Get out there, Get in there, and Get off there!

Elaine S. Turner

Clinical Sexologist | Sex, Dating, & Relationship Coach | Pleasure Product Guru

www.SexWithElaine.com

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