Valentine’s Day 2023 Gift Guide: Buying the perfect sexy gift for couples

Valentine's Day is all about celebrating and creating love and intimacy. When you're in a relationship, it can be a nerve-wracking time of year when the bar is really high. Do you get flowers? Chocolates? Jewellery? We've got a better solution. Work together and start a couple's adult toy tradition this year! You two can go shopping together for shared sex toys each year. This makes it so the eroticism of your relationship keeps building. There's no pressure on either person, just joint decisions that help the sexual aspects of your relationship. Doesn't that sound like a load off your shoulders? So make things easier for all parties involved and start a joint gift-sharing tradition for Valentine's Day this year!

How to buy a couple's gift for Valentine's Day

If you're sharing the burden of shopping for Valentine's Day as a couple, congratulations!

You're one of the smart ones.

When you make decisions together, you're celebrating and investing in both your physical and intellectual intimacy. 

If you're unsure of how to broach the subject of getting a sex toy for Valentine's Day, we've got a few tips:

• Share this article with your loved one and see how they feel about equally investing in a single Valentine's gift for both of you.
• Turn on a steamy Netflix series and let it spark the conversation naturally.
• Tell your partner you're burnt out on gift ideas after the holidays!

There's really no wrong way to go about this.

When you buy a sex toy as a couple, you're equally invested in the pleasure that will come from it. Also, you know it won't suck because you chose it together!

Valentine's Day 2023 sexy couple's gifts

We've got something for everyone on this list. There are options for all gender and orientations here! Not all of them will work across the board, but you'll at least know where to get started for Valentine's Day 2023. 

Hot Valentine's Day gifts for couples idea #1: Vibrating cock ring

Buy the Satisfyer Royal One Vibrating Cock Ring

While these tend to work best when one partner has a penis, it also pairs perfectly with a dildo! The Satisfyer Royal One Vibrating Cock Ring has something for everyone to enjoy. If your partner has a penis, then this will help him:

• Last longer in bed
• Make his penis appear and feel bigger and thicker
• Help him maintain an erection for longer
• Intensify his orgasm
• Vibrate on your clitoris or anal opening with each thrust!

Vibrating cock rings make an excellent and inexpensive addition to any sex toy collection.

Especially this one from Satisfyer. It's app-controlled, so you can change the vibrations to perfectly suit your needs (or buzz to the tune of your favourite song.) It's fully rechargeable, body-safe, and has a 15-year warranty! Talk about an excellent investment!

Hot Valentine's Day gift for couples idea #2: Butt plugs

Buy the Booty Call Butt Plug Set

Ah, butt plugs!

Such a wonderful and vast world to explore!

The big issue with buying a butt plug is they're often made from sketchy and dubious materials. Once again, enter Satisfyer! They've created a fabulous 3-piece butt plug set called Booty Call. It features three different plugs with varying textures, so you can both experiment with anal pleasure!

Also, since they're made from body-safe materials, they're safe to share after a quick wash!

Everyone has a butt hole, so everyone can enjoy anal play!

The Booty Call set is the perfect gift for anyone who likes a little backdoor action, and it's inexpensive!

Hot Valentine's Day gift for couples idea #3: A Vibrating Wand

Buy the Lelo Smart Wand 2

Wands have long been the pinnacle and founder of all female masturbatory pleasure. But don't let that fool you. Every person can get pleasure from a vibrating wand! 

For those with a penis, you can use it as a companion toy with your masturbator. Also, try it on your perineum or even just on the frenulum of the penis. 

For women, well, we don't need to elaborate, do we?

The Lelo Smart Wand 2 takes everything you love about traditional wands. The intense vibrations, the easy-to-maneuver handle, and the battery life! It's just in a slightly smaller package than the Hitachi magic wands of the past. 

That way, it's more discreet while never compromising on power.

The vibrating wand is always a classic piece of anyone's sex toy collection. So don't let this obvious choice pass you by!

Hot Valentine's Day gift for couples idea #4: A strap-on

Buy the Sharevibe from Fun Factory

Everyone can enjoy a strap-on! Especially the Sharevibe from Fun Factory. This revolutionary style of strap-on is designed to bring both partners to the heights of pleasure simultaneously. The penetrator is also being penetrated by one end, while the other end goes into any orifice you desire!

It has a removable bullet vibrator in the base. That way you can choose whether or not you want this sexy strap-on to vibrate or not.

It also means that you're not stuck waiting for it to charge!

Since Fun Factory only uses the highest quality medical-grade silicone, you can share this toy anally (clean between uses) with no worries! It's easily sanitised and has enough power to ensure a good night's rest after a hot Valentine's Day date. 

Hot Valentine's Day gift for couples idea #5: A sex machine

Buy the Highsmith Mini Sex Machine

It may sound like something straight off a porn set - because it is! Sex machines have been a wildly popular part of the porn industry for years for many reasons. Mainly because it's fun to watch your partner's mind get blown without having to lift a finger!

The Highsmith Mini Sex Machine with remote control & compatible app is an excellent choice for Valentine's Day 2023.

It features near and far control options to help bring your partner pleasure wherever you are. It has 8 modes preprogrammed so that you don't have to put in that much effort. 

The app is fabulous and even connects you with a community of like-minded kinky people!

All you do is set the sex machine up, lube up the attached dildo and watch your partner have the ride of their life! All without having to lift a finger. This is an especially great gift idea for those in LDR (long-distance relationships.)

Hot Valentine's Day for Couples at Funtasia

If you and your partner are new to the world of adult toys, don't worry, our staff have you covered! Drop by one of our three locations throughout New South Wales to get personalised sexy toy-buying help from one of our Sexpert staff! They'll help you make this hot Valentine's Day gift for couple's a shining beacon of your new sexier life together.

Get out there, Get in there, and Get off there!

Elaine S. Turner

Resident Sexologist | Sex, Dating, & Relationship Coach | Pleasure Product Guru

www.SexWithElaine.com

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