How to Choose the Perfect Dildo or Dong - Part 2: Types of Dongs & Dildos

Part 2 of ourHow to Choose the Perfect Dildo or Dong series will focus on theten main styles of dildo. Yes, ten types of dildo. That's not even all of them. 

So let's get started!

Most of these will have a few keyfeatures.

The Suction Cup

These are far more useful than you may imagine. You can stick your dildo to a hard surface, such as a shower wall or bench-top, so that you can go to town on yourself.

The suction cups are also helpful when you're putting your new toy into a harness for pegging. It allows them to stay snugly in place, so you don't have any inconvenient movement during play.

Suppose your dildo doesn't feature any testicles or anything similar around the base. In that case, the suction cup makes the dildo safe for anal play since it prevents it from being pulled up into your rectum. 

Harness-Compatible

Not everyone's thing, but it may be yours! If you want to plop your dildo into a strap-on for any reason, you'll want to be sure it's compatible with a harness. This provides you with the versatility for pegging or double penetration quickly and easily.

The Standard Straight Dildo

This is probably the one you've seen the most in those vintage pornos that you used to rent from the backrooms of video stores. 

Usually straight with a flared base, these used to be made from a jelly-like material. We suggest you stay far, far away from (seePart 1 for more details on materials.)

These seldom actually look like a penis and remain popular as a choice from strap-ons.

 The Lifelike Dildo

Still the most popular style of dildo on the market, these vary widely from incredibly realistic. Some include skin that you can pull to ones that vaguely resemble a penis and are "flesh coloured" - meaning a caucasian-coloured dildo.

Many feature all the things you're looking for, including araised coronal edge, veins, testicles with incredible detail, and even foreskin if that's what you're into! If you want one that's straight to the point and made with medical-grade silicone, check outFun Factory's Limba Flex!

Curved Tip Dildos

If you've read our previous articles on the G-spot and the P-spot, then you'll know why this curve is essential. Both of these pleasure zones require a turn at the tip to really stimulate, which is why curved-tipped dildos continue to be an easy choice for many.

Thisone from Loverboy has a mean upward curve and is phthalate and latex-free!

Textured Dildos

Usually, these dildos are made from non-fleshlike material such as glass. They can feature any number of textures on them. From raised bumps similar to a ribbed condom to swirling lines to titillate your entry points, these are an easy choice for many who are looking for a different type of stimulation. Chrystalino makes the beautiful and texturedLollypop!

The Vibrating Dildo

These are usually made from lifelike materials such as TPE & TPR. They can feature either a removable bullet, remote control or internal engine that provides you with a unique kind of pleasure no human can capture. Thedual-density dildos are usually what you're looking for here. The more solid they are, the better they'll transmit vibrations. If you're looking for a vibrating dildo,check out this one that features a remote by Dr Spin.

Alternatively, you could just get acock ring with a powerful vibratorto turn any dildo into a vibrating one. 

Fantasy Dildos

Now, this is where people get really creative! For those interested in exploringteratophilia or the sexual attraction to monsters and mythical creatures of any kind, there are a ton of dildos for you!

This unique branch of dildo innovation is truly a beauty to behold. From unique ones that resemble an alien tentacle and lay synthetic eggs inside you to just about anything else you can imagine, there's a dildo for that. While this isn't our area of expertise, we can recommend that you check out thisRainbow Dildo from Knob Job that looks like a queen's sceptre. If this is something that turns you on, check out the famous specialistsPrimal Hardware.

The Double-Ended Dildo

Contrary to popular belief, anyone can enjoy pleasure from a double-ended dildo. Some stay in a curved "U-shape", while others can be adjusted to suit your penetration or holding needs.

Both have their benefits. The U-shape can easily fill two holes at once without the danger of the toy being sucked up into the rectum of no return. Likethis one from Real Rock, the adjustable style is excellent to use with two holes on two people, two holes on one person, or one hole on one person. It has the flexibility of having a very comfortable and long handle. If you're looking for the adjustable and bendable type, check out this phthalate and latex-free one fromKing Cock.

The Strapless Strap-On

These are beautiful pieces of innovation, creativity and commitment to providing as much pleasure as possible. These are ideal for:

• Those interested in penetrating another person but have erection difficulties
• Those who want a second phallus for another reason you have
• Those who don't have a penis of their own and still want to penetrate a partner. 

Usually designed with a curve in them, one end is inserted into the penetrator's orifice. In contrast, you can insert the other end into the person being penetrated. This allows maximum pleasure for both partners.

Some of these even vibrate at one end or both, depending on what you want!

Our absolute favourite is theSharevibe by Fun Factory.

Inflatable Dildos

Ever-increasing in popularity, these toys are specialised to help those who want to take on bigger and better things. They usually feature a phallically shaped dildo attached to a hose and a small hand-pump. This allows you to insert the dildo and stretch out your rectum or vagina so you can get the next biggest thing up there.

Ouch makes avibrating and inflatable option available here.

Squirting Dildos

More often than not, these are often designed to be lifelike. However, many in the fantasy dildo game are integrating this feature. With these dildos, you can fill them up with a particular substance that usually resembles ejaculate or cum. 

They offer various mechanisms that allow you to choose the exact moment of the ejaculatory display so that you have complete control over what it does, like this9-inch squirting dildo from Loadz.

Stay tuned for Part 3 of ourHow to Choose the Perfect Dildo series, where we'll be discussing how to choose the perfect size and shape of dildo for you!

Get out there, Get in there, Get off there!

Elaine S. Turner

Sex Coach, Sexuality Educator, & Sexual Wellness Brand Consultant

www.SexWithElaine.com

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